Don’t Marry A Man Who Cannot Call Out And Rebuke His Parents – Solomon Buchi Advises Women

Solomon Buchi, a Nigerian author and life coach, has told ladies the type of men they should avoid while preparing for marriage.

He urged them not to marry a man who would not protect them from his family and others.

He believes that men should be strong and bold, and not be afraid to protect their partners.

He wrote:

“Don’t marry a man who cannot call out and rebuke his parents. The protective nature of men isn’t just in bigger toned muscles but in their ability to be firm, stubborn and bold even to their family.

It’s easy to find a man who can protect you from outsiders; please find a man who won’t be scared to protect you from his family if need be. Men ought to be men,”

In other news, Yemi Alade, a celebrated singer from Nigeria, has shared the reason behind her lack of recognition in her home country, despite her undeniable success.

The singer disclosed that, at one point in the industry, everyone in the industry wanted to have s3x with her in the hopes of gaining bigger prospects.

Yemi Alade claimed that because she decided to forgo having s3x with anyone, she was immediately denied access to several privileges.

She urged her followers to consider why, despite having the highest number of views and subscribers among Nigerian female artists on YouTube, she hardly ever receives attention from award ceremonies.

Yemi Alade added that despite winning and receiving repeated recognition from outside the nation, she is not acknowledged as one of the biggest female artists on social media platforms.

The 35-year-old, meanwhile, stated that she is happy she chose it as it means she still has her dignity and her devoted following.

Yemi Alade revealed:

“There was a time in the industry when everyone wanted to sleep with me and it was like, ‘Yemi, if you don’t do this, you won’t have that. Today men is the reason I don’t win award in Nigeria.

….going down with men was like a bridge I had to cross to get on some platforms, get some deals and even awards. When I made my decision never to engage in sexual activities for gains, lots of opportunities were automatically blocked for me.

Ask yourself why Yemi Alade who is the most viewed and most subscribed Nigerian female artiste on YouTube gets almost no recognition from award shows year after year. Even during twitter debates, no one mentions Yemi Alade as one of the biggest female artistes in Nigeria.

They really blocked everything for me. But l’m glad coz l have my dignity, I have my life, l’m making cool cash and above all, I have fans who love me so much…”