Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, widely recognized as Nedu, a prominent figure in the media and acting industry, has ignited a discussion by expressing his perspective on the definition of a “real man.”
Nedu asserts that a key aspect of true masculinity lies in prohibiting one’s partner from maintaining a close friendship or a “bestie” with a male individual.
According to Nedu, a man can only be considered authentic if he establishes clear boundaries and refuses to tolerate such relationships, as this demonstrates a genuine portrayal of masculinity.
In his words:
“If you’re a real man never in your life allow your woman whether it’s your girlfriend, fiancée or wife have a male bestie. Don’t allow it. I know what I’m saying. A real man would not allow that.”
Nedu further recommended that men refrain from resorting to physical confrontations with other men over women, emphasizing that such behavior is not characteristic of true masculinity.
He advised instead to address the matter directly with one’s partner, as they are the ones responsible for initiating the disrespectful behavior.
“Secondly, never fight your fellow man because of a woman. Real men don’t do that. Even if you catch your partner cheating with another man, you don’t have any business with the man. It’s your woman who disrespected you in the first place. So, therefore, never fight another man because of a woman.
“Thirdly, don’t chase after a woman who doesn’t like you. Don’t do that. It’s a waste of your time and resources.
“Fourthly, real men don’t spend money on women who doesn’t add value to their lives. By value, it doesn’t necessarily need to be financial. It can be psychological, spiritual, emotional or otherwise” he concluded
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